|I am a lesbian; but I have absolutely no interest in sleeping with women. How do I define myself?|
I have no interest in sleeping with men either, because I am a lesbian; but the thought of sleeping with women doesn't appeal to me. I love looking at women. I am attracted to women. I am not attracted to men; but the thought of having sex with a woman doesn't strike my fancy. Anyways I was just wondering how I would define myself.
Go have sex with a woman and then ask the question again.
|My lesbian friend is sleeping over at my house..I am a girl?|
My friend from California is planning on sleeping over in the summer. She just came out as a lesbian to me so that I don't feel uncomfertable when she sleeps over. It doesn't make a difference whether she is a lesbian or straight, honestly, but this is still an interesting situation. i just want to know if any of you have been in this situation and if it made a difference in the sleepover. Thanks :)
|yes, i have.|
its truly no different then how it used to be before she came out to me!
i mean, just because shes attracted to girls. doesnt mean shes attracted to every girl! im glad, you dont look at her differently. and you are still her friend! she needs it(:
|Sleeping with a girl am i a lesbian ?|
I sleep with a girl for the first time in my life, I've always dated men but i just wanted to try it, but now i like it, im attracted to females i think there so sexy, does that make me a lesbian ?
|What do lesbians consider sleeping together?|
I'm a perfectly straight female, but the other night I had a lesbian couple over, and we watched "The L word"?? One of the questions posed was "What constitutes two lesbians sleeping together?". Like when a lesbian says, "We slept together." What does that mean? Foreplay, penetration, etc? I always wondered EXACTLY what that means, but I didn't want to offend them by being waaaay too personal just to satisfy my curiousities....
|They define it differently. Some lesbians I know consider sex to be an act where all people involved orgasm. Some consider it to be oral sex, tribalism (grinding) or "strap on" sex. Others think of it as being intimate and only consider sex to be when all of those involved are nude and are doing something sexual (like fingering). |
Penetration is not the definition for sex for lesbian couples.
|Is it okay for non-lesbian bffs to spoon while sleeping?|
It just grosses me out, I was thinking if its normal.
Btw, I'm the kind of person who definitely thinks hugs are reserved for close friends only.
|I'm with you. Ugh.|
|Married gal with 4 guys sleeping with a lesbian?????|
I have a lesbian friend, she's hanging out and sleeping together with this married gal with 4 guys. This married girl come over to the apartment were staying (i do rent a room), and sometimes leave her house for 2 days. I pity her husband who is airforce and dont know whats goin on.
She is aware that she have a great life. I dont know what is missing she is longing to a lesbian, but I heard from her shes having a wonderful life. Im a mom, so I feel so very bad to her coz of the guys. My lesbian friend and her were like enjoying their "monkey" business...it seems that they dont want to listen to us if we talk to them to stop.
What to do now?
|someone needs to tell her husband so he can divorce her..she is mentally ill and the guyren need to be removed from her also|
|I'm trying to sleep with a lesbian but feel guilty about it should I ?|
I feel like I'm taking advantage of her and I feel guilty.Should I feel guilty when she come over and is game for just about whatever I want to do? I very close to sleeping with her and I have cold feet.I'm not some jerk who would just have sex with her just to say I pulled a lesbian. She would kick my *** for writing this instead of talking to her about it But I'm at a crossroads and I need some advise.
|if shes willing to sleep with u then she is bisexual and u wouldn't b taking advantage if she wants it give it to her|
|Do lesbians try sleeping with men at least once?|
I don't want to be rude at all but I have a couple lesbian friends (I am straight) and I'm curious about something - do most lesbians experiment with men but find it unfulfilling? Cause "doing it" with a man feels so so so unbelievably good. I am not bashing anyone's lifestyle but the male & female forms are meant to "fit" together just in a technical sense. How do lesbians know they won't like it unless they try it? Again no disrespect just curiosity. Thanks!
|Because they aren't attracted to me man, emotionally and/or sexually to sleep with them in the first place. I'm not going to go out and find a man and have sex with him simply because i haven't tried it and i don't know if i will like it not. How do you know you wont like sleeping with a women? If you haven't tried it....|
|Why do lesbian feelings return after i wake u from sleep?|
Ok, so just last night and yesterday I was determined to be str8 and basically felt the need to be and sorta felt str8. Then this morning the gay feelings returned again. I don't know does sleep induceed lesbian feelings. I mean I've always felt attraction to grls but I felt some need to change etc.this just happened for the first time its like when I resist the feeling all night and day it return after I wake up from sleep.
|"Ok, so just last night and yesterday I was determined to be str8 and basically felt the need to be and sorta felt str8."|
I'm not sure what you mean by this.
You are what you are. You don't "need" to be anything. If you're attracted only to women, you're lesbian. If you're attracted to both women and men, you're bisexual.
You don't need to resist anything, and there is no need for you to change. You can't. Sexual orientation is an innate and immutable psychological characteristic.